How to Rescue Your Loved One from the Watchtower
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Introduction |
"Rescue" from a Religion? |
Don't Delay--Act Today! |
Overall Strategy |
Techniques that Work |
Tools to Use |
Step by Step |
God's "Prophet" |
A Changing "Channel" |
Doctoring Medical Doctrines |
Strange Ideas Taught in God's Name |
"God's Visible Organization" |
Providing an Alternative |
Can This Marriage Be Saved? |
When Children Are Involved |
Warning: The Life You Save May Be Your Own |
Afterwork: Gradual Rehabilitation |
Appendix: Resources & Support Groups
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Chapter 3
Overall Strategy
A typical
encounter between a Christian and a Jehovah’s Witness goes like this: The
Christian shows the JW a Bible verse that contradicts Watchtower teaching. The JW
then responds with another verse that he feels supports his beliefs. The
Christian then counters with another verse, to which the JW replies with still
another, and so forth. Such a discussion can be described as “biblical
Ping-Pong.” Verses bounce back and forth, perhaps for hours on end, with no
tangible results other than the sweaty exhaustion that follows a literal
Ping-Pong game. And even if the Christian seems to have come off the “winner”
in the debate, this carries no more weight with the Jehovah’s Witness than if
it had been a mere Ping-Pong game he had lost; he is still not about to change
his religion.
What is wrong with the above approach? Why does a
well-planned barrage of Bible verses usually fail to make a dent in a Witness’s
thinking? The reason is that this form of attack is based upon a wrong
assumption. It assumes that the Jehovah’s Witness believes certain things on
account of what he has read in the Bible, and that he will change his beliefs
if he is shown other verses as prooftexts for a different doctrinal stance. But
anyone making this assumption has already fallen victim to the sect’s
propaganda: namely, the claim that Jehovah’s Witnesses are Bible-reading people
who rely on Scripture as their highest authority. Actually they do little
personal Bible reading aside from looking up isolated verses cited in
Watchtower literature. And they base their beliefs, not on what they find in
the Bible, but on what their leaders tell them the Bible says.
For example, consider what happened on one occasion when
two ladies called at my door with Watchtower and Awake! magazines
in their hands. I let the one taking the lead go ahead with her presentation
for a minute or two, rejected her offer of the magazines, but then asked if she
could answer a Bible question for me before she left. (Jehovah’s Witnesses love
to “teach” people they meet in their door-to-door work by answering Bible
questions—especially since they think they know all the answers.) My question
was this: Where do you find in the Bible your belief that “the great crowd” of
true worshipers today will be rewarded with everlasting life on earth instead
of in heaven? She promptly flipped open the pages of her New World
Translation and showed me Revelation 7:9, “After these things I saw, and, look!
a great crowd, which no man was able to number, out of all nations and tribes
and peoples and tongues, standing before the throne and before the Lamb,
dressed in white robes; and there were palm branches in their hands.”
When I showed her the context and pointed out that the
“great crowd” is pictured there “standing before the throne” of God in heaven,
rather than on earth, she answered that all the earth stands before God’s
throne. So I had her turn over a few pages to Revelation, chapter 19, which also
speaks of the “great crowd,” and asked her to read the first verse: “After
these things I heard what was a loud voice of a great crowd in heaven. They
said, ‘Praise Jah, you people! The salvation and the glory and the power belong
to our God.’ ”
“So, where is the ‘great crowd’?” I asked.
“On earth,” was her reply.
“Please read it again,” I asked.
She did, but this time I stopped her after the word heaven
and asked again where the verse located the “great crowd.”
“On earth,” was still her answer.
Then I got her to look at Revelation 19:1 again and
admit that she had read the word heaven.
“It says ‘heaven’,” she finally acknowledged, “but the
‘great crowd’ is on earth. You don’t understand,” she went on, “we have men at
our headquarters in Brooklyn, New York,
who explain the Bible to us. And they can prove that the ‘great crowd’ is on
earth; I just can’t explain it that well.”
By this admission she revealed the true nature of the
problem. She made it clear that her belief was based, not on what the Bible said,
but on what her leaders said it said—even to the point that she could look at
the word heaven and see earth instead. Most people would call
this brainwashing.
This explains why a barrage of Bible verses can bounce
off a Jehovah’s Witness like so many Ping-Pong balls, with no effect. The JW
may look at the verses, but what he sees in his mind’s eye is the Watchtower
Society’s interpretation of those verses. It is as if he is looking at
the pages of the Bible through Watchtower-colored glasses. So the first step in
your strategy must be to remove those distorted lenses. To accomplish this, you
will have to get the Witness to look at the Watchtower organization itself. You
will need to demonstrate that the leaders have made repeated false prophecies,
have changed doctrines back and forth, and have misled followers to their
harm—that is, they are not a reliable guide to follow. The Witness will
then be forced to think for himself or herself; in effect, the
Watchtower-colored glasses will be removed.
But this can be difficult, because JWs are trained to
keep opening the Bible, bringing up prooftexts for their various teachings. And
your natural response would be to answer them on each point. As long as you
allow them to control the discussion in this way, though, they will never see
the forest for the trees, as the expression goes. At some point you must
interrupt the issue-by-issue argument to focus attention on the big issue, the
organization itself.
Picture the Watchtower, for a moment, as an ancient
walled fort with archers and spearmen standing guard atop the wall. Your army
surrounds the fort. Your archers shoot arrows at their counterparts on the
wall, and your spearmen hurl missiles. Sometimes your men score a hit, and
sometimes theirs do; but the battle goes nowhere. Nowhere, that is, until a
contingent of your men stop trading shots with the enemy and instead, with
helmets on their heads, shields on their backs and shovels in their hands, dig
around the base of the wall until it is undermined and collapses. As it falls,
so do the host of archers and spearmen who stood atop it, seemingly
invulnerable only moments before.
Disputing with a Jehovah’s Witness over questions of
deity, theology, and the afterlife can be like the archers and spearmen
exchanging shots with those on the wall. But attacking the organization itself,
destroying its credibility by exposing its long history of error—this is akin
to undermining the wall and causing it to topple over. When the organization
falls, so do all the teachings and doctrines that depend on its authority for
support.
It will take discipline on your part to ignore some of
the “spears” and “arrows” thrown at you in the form of doctrinal challenges, in
order to focus your attention and the attention of the Witness on the
organization itself; but it will be well worth the effort. Once the
organization’s authority is undermined, the doctrines will be much easier to
deal with.
Before considering the ammunition to fire against the
Watchtower organization, however, you would be wise to learn some techniques
that work and to familiarize yourself with the tools you will need to use.
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