How to Rescue Your Loved One from the Watchtower
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Providing an Alternative |
Can This Marriage Be Saved? |
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Warning: The Life You Save May Be Your Own |
Afterwork: Gradual Rehabilitation |
Appendix: Resources & Support Groups
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Chapter 5
Tools to Use
The principal
tools that will prove useful in liberating a Jehovah’s Witness fall into three
main categories: (1) Scripture, (2) literature critical of the JW organization,
and (3) Watchtower Society literature. In order to employ each effectively, it
is necessary to understand how they can help you—or hurt your cause if used
incorrectly.
Using the Bible
When using Scripture in discussions with Jehovah’s
Witnesses, it is important to keep in mind how they view the Bible and various
translations thereof.
First of all, the organization has taught them to view
the Bible as the inspired Word of God. They accept it as inerrant and
authoritative. Whatever the Bible says is the final word on a subject.
Why then is it so difficult to get a Witness to see what
the Bible says when it plainly refutes Watchtower doctrine? Why is it that a
scriptural presentation that should reach a Witness’s heart simply bounces off
his chest like a BB pellet ricocheting off a Sherman
tank? Why do your biblical arguments fail to penetrate the JWs thinking? The
answer lies in a fuller comprehension of their view of the Bible.
Witnesses believe that the Scriptures are “the holy
writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation.… All Scripture is
inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things
straight, for disciplining in righteousness.” They often quote these words from
2 Timothy 3:15, 16 (nwt) to show their reliance on the
Bible, but they seldom comment on verse 17, which follows in the immediate
context: “that the man of God may be fully competent, completely equipped for
every good work.” They may read verse 17 in order to complete the thought and
to finish the sentence begun in verse 16, but in actual practice the Witnesses
do not believe that the Bible alone is sufficient to make a person “wise
for salvation.” Nor is one “fully competent, completely equipped” with just the
Bible. Rather it is absolutely necessary to have Watchtower Society
publications that explain and interpret Scripture.
From very early in its history the organization has
portrayed the Bible as worthless without Watchtower study aids to accompany it:
… not only do we find that people cannot see the divine
plan in studying the Bible by itself, but we see, also, that if anyone lays the
SCRIPTURE STUDIES aside and goes to the Bible alone, although he has understood
his Bible for ten years, our experience shows that within two years he goes
into darkness. On the other hand, if he had merely read the SCRIPTURE STUDIES
with their references, and had not read a page of the Bible, as such, he would
be in the light at the end of the two years (The Watch Tower, 9/15/10,
p. 298).
This explains why you can not simply quote from the
Bible and reach the mind and heart of a fully indoctrinated Jehovah’s Witness.
He or she does not dare look at the Bible alone, without the guidance of Watchtower
publications. Doing so might lead to apostasy, which JWs redefine as the most
deadly sin of turning away from God by rejecting “God’s organization.”
Speaking of some who left the organization after
pursuing independent Bible study, The Watchtower comments:
They say that it is sufficient to read the Bible
exclusively, either alone or in small groups at home. But, strangely, through
such “Bible reading,” they have reverted right back to the apostate doctrines
that commentaries by Christendom’s clergy were teaching 100 years ago … (The
Watchtower, 8/15/81, pp. 28, 29).
So if people rely on the Bible alone, without Watchtower
Society study guides, they tend to return to the doctrines of traditional
Christianity. What a strange admission! Still, not realizing the irony of such
a statement, Jehovah’s Witnesses get the point that they must never read
Scripture without subjecting it to the organization’s interpretation. In
effect, they look at the Bible through Watchtower-tinted lenses. They see in
the Word only what they are told to see.
If you yourself have never been a Witness, this may be
difficult to grasp. It is hard to understand how someone can see a clear
statement in the Bible, read it out loud, repeat it from memory, and still not
get the point of what the verse is saying. But the encounter, mentioned
earlier, that I had with two JW ladies on my own doorstep well illustrated that
this is exactly what happens. Remember in Chapter 3 I had asked one of them to
read Revelation 19:1, in her own Bible, to see where it positions the “great
crowd”? She obligingly opened her New World Translation and read, “
‘After these things I heard what was as a loud voice of a great crowd in
heaven.’ ” “The ‘great crowd’ is on earth!” she commented, eventually admitting
that “It says heaven, but the ‘great crowd’ is on earth” because
“We have men at our headquarters in Brooklyn, New
York, who explain the Bible to us. And they can prove
that the ‘great crowd’ is on earth; I just can’t explain it that well.”
So although the Witnesses will tote their Bibles to your
door and will read from Scripture to support their teachings, they are not
actually taking their instruction from the Word of God, but rather from the men
at Watchtower headquarters who tell them what the Bible says and what it means.
Likewise, when you show them a verse, have them read it, and ask them what it
says, their response is governed by the prior indoctrination they have
received, rather than by what they have just read from the page.
To cope with this type of behavior on the part of the
particular Witness you are trying to help, you must remember that what is
happening is more than what meets the eye. When you ask the individual to read
a verse from the Bible, he or she reads
it—and then instantaneously does something else without your knowledge. The
person’s preprogrammed mind automatically replaces what the verse says with the
organization’s interpretation of what it says. This is not a conscious dodge,
but rather a knee-jerk, reflex action that the JW is not even aware of. Reading
the verse triggers the official interpretation to pop up in the brain.
Being aware that this is what goes on in the Witness’s
mind, you are in a better position to handle a biblical discussion. You will
realize that it is not enough simply to read a verse and comment on it.
Painstaking effort is necessary in order to get the JW to truly grasp what the
verse says. The following steps are often helpful.
1. Rather than read the verse yourself, ask the Witness
to read it aloud from the organization’s New World
Translation. (If you simply quote the verse from memory, the JW may assume
that you misquoted it; or, if you read it first from a non-Witness translation,
that it was mistranslated.)
2. Have the Witness break down the verse into clauses,
phrases, and individual words. Ask him or her to comment on what each means.
The Watchtower interpretation of the whole may disintegrate when the parts are
examined separately.
3. Read the same verse from other translations: first
from the Watchtower Society’s Kingdom Interlinear word-for-word
rendering of the Greek, then perhaps from Steven T. Byington’s The Bible in
Living English (also published by the Watchtower Society), and finally from
a few other recognized translations—a multiversion parallel Bible is helpful in
this and can be obtained through a local Christian bookstore. Unless you are
considering one of the few hundred verses that Watchtower translators altered
to fit official doctrine, the purpose of such a comparison would not be to
discredit the New World Translation but rather to avoid the word pattern
that triggers recall of the preprogrammed interpretation.
For example, while reading the nwt’s familiar wording of Christ’s command regarding the
communion cup, to “Drink out of it, all of you,” the Witness likely will see no
contradiction in the Watchtower’s teaching that only a small percentage of
believers should partake. But reading “Each one drink from it” in The
Living Bible’s paraphrase might be just enough to get him to see that “all
of you” in the nwt really means “all
of you”! (Matt. 26:27, italics added).
Before leaving the subject of how to use the Bible, a
word about the New World Translation itself is in order. For a number of
years Jehovah’s Witnesses carried with them to their neighbors’ doors a
green-covered copy of this Bible. The green cover was helpful as a warning to
non-Witnesses, because it tipped them off that something was different. More
recently, however, the Brooklyn Bethel factories have been turning out nwts with black covers, making them
easier to pass off as ordinary Bibles. But that could not be further from the
truth. Actually, the New World Translation contains hundreds of verses
that have been altered to fit Watchtower doctrine.
Before it was published, Witnesses had to employ the
standard translations used by everyone else. Their printing presses actually
produced thousands of copies of the King James Version. Then they began using
the American Standard Version, because it featured the name Jehovah more
frequently in the Old Testament. But JWs were constantly facing the
embarrassing problem of a knowledgeable householder asking them to look up John
1:1, where Jesus Christ is identified as “God,” or Galatians 6:14, where it
speaks of “the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Now, with their own tailor-made
version, they can turn to these same verses and show that Jesus is merely “a
god,” and that he was put to death on a “torture stake” instead of a cross.
There is much more that could be said about the nwt; in fact, whole books have been
written about it. But the important point to bear in mind when having
discussions with a JW loved one is this: while it may prove useful to show the
Witness that a certain point is in fact in his Bible, the nwt should not be relied on for
unbiased accurate renderings of the Word of God.
Using Other Books
In addition to this book there are many others written
by Christians to expose the errors of the Watchtower Society (see
Appendix). For instance, as mentioned before there is my own Jehovah ’s
Witnesses Answered Verse by Verse, a quick reference guide that discusses
dozens of passages misinterpreted by JWs and suggests how to respond to them in
each case. The more such aids you read before your encounter, the better. They
can make you more familiar with the sect’s history and beliefs, and can prepare
you for some of the off-the-wall arguments you can expect from well-trained
JWs.
But these books are best left unseen and preferably
unmentioned to the Witness. The only book that you should bring to the table is
the Bible itself, with the possible exception of Watchtower literature, which
we will discuss shortly. (Your own hand-written notes are best kept on a small
sheet of paper taped inside your Bible.)
The reason that other literature should be kept out of
sight is twofold: (1) Having on hand material written by an apostate ex-Witness
like myself would be almost as offensive as having a disfellowshiped person
join you at the table. The JW views “reading apostate publications [as] similar
to reading pornographic literature” (The Watchtower, 3/15/86, p. 14). If
he knows that you are using such materials, he will suspect that you may be a
willing instrument of the devil, or else duped by “wicked apostates.” On one
occasion back in the days when I was a JW elder, I took the traveling Circuit
Overseer with me to visit a man who had expressed an interest in talking with
us. We had just stepped inside and had exchanged no more than a greeting with
the man, when my companion noticed some anti-Witness books on the table. “Come
on, Dave! Let’s get out of here!” he barked, turning toward the door. “We’re
not supposed to cast our pearls before swine!” Your discussion with a Witness
could similarly be cut short if a book such as the one you are now holding were
to be seen. (2) It should be made clear that your faith and your beliefs are
based on the Bible alone, rather than books authored by men. This should stand
out in sharp contrast to the Witness, who depends completely on publications of
the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society. If he sees you using books in addition
to the Bible, he will automatically assume that you derive your beliefs from
your books, the same as he does his.
Using Watchtower Literature
The most powerful tool you can use to help a fully
indoctrinated Jehovah’s Witness is his own literature. But, how could
that be so? Would not his own literature simply reinforce his existing beliefs?
No, because it is here that you will find the documentary evidence disproving
the Watchtower Society’s claim to divine authority.
Buried in the back issues of The Watchtower are
countless contradictions, false prophecies, back-and-forth doctrinal changes,
fraudulent deceptions, and patently ludicrous notions—all taught as “the
Truth.” As we shall see in later chapters, the leaders in Brooklyn
at one time believed that the Great Pyramid of Egypt contained prophetic wisdom
from God; later, they decided the Pyramid was Satan’s Bible. Although
condemning others as false prophets, they themselves predicted that the world
would end in 1914; later, that the patriarchs Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob would
rise from the grave in 1925; and, more recently, that the world would end and
the thousand-year-reign of Christ would begin in 1975. For years they taught that
Almighty God Jehovah resided in a particular location in outer space, namely,
on the star Alcyone in the Pleiades star system. They proclaimed that God
forbade certain medical procedures, allowed their followers to suffer or die in
obedience to these beliefs, and then years later dropped the prohibitions.
Most Jehovah’s Witnesses have no idea that these things
happened; or else, they have heard a vague, sugar-coated version. For example,
they often hear in their Kingdom Halls that the Watchtower Society back in the
1800s predicted a world war for 1914, the year World War I broke out; whereas
the war predicted for that year was actually the Battle of Armageddon, in which
God would destroy all human governments, replacing them with his kingdom. When
confronted with the facts on such matters, JWs can not help but be shocked. And
presented with one such shock after another, they can not help but question
their leaders’ claim to speak for God.
The evidence is all right there, in black and white, in
the pages of the Society’s publications. Although instructed not to read other
people’s “false religious literature that is designed to deceive” (The
Watchtower, 5/1/84, p. 31), Witnesses can hardly refuse to look at their
own literature. In fact, each one collects a personal library of the
organization’s books for that very purpose, and they are accustomed to doing
research and looking up information in back issues of their magazines.
But it usually is not sufficient merely to quote the
literature, citing the publication, page, and paragraph. The Witness will
likely assume you misquoted it, or will favorably alter the quote in his own
mind and never bother to look it up for verification. The most effective
approach is to produce a photocopy of the actual page, with the quote
highlighted, circled or underlined in its original context. This can not be
dismissed as a baseless, hostile accusation. In fact, it is not your accusation
that the Witness must contend with, but rather the Watchtower Society’s own
words printed in its own publications—literature that the JW has been taught to
revere as coming from “God’s organization.” Jesus said, “ … out of your own
mouth you will be condemned” (Matt. 12:37
neb),
and the Watchtower leadership certainly has furnished more than enough evidence
out of its own mouth to condemn it before God and man.
Even here you must exercise discernment as to when and
how you will share these photocopies with a particular Jehovah’s Witness. Since
the originals are not available to you and you are copying from a book such as
ours, be sure to block out or cut off any added headings or page numbers, so
that only the original Watchtower headings and page numbers remain. And then
present them as “copies of Watchtower literature,” which they truly are. If you
fear the Witness will question you as to their source, you could visit the
local public library to copy some Watchtower books directly, or you could visit
the organization’s official web site at www.watchtower.org to print some pages
from the literature provided online—and then say that you researched materials
pro and con. You might even ask the
Witness to look up the copied pages in his own Kingdom Hall library to verify
their accuracy.
Be sure to read the highlighted quotes aloud with the
Witness, rather than just hand him or her a pile of papers in the hope that he
or she will read them later on. But let the quotes themselves do most of the
talking, rather than your repeatedly hammering home the point that the
organization is false. After reading all the quotes in a calm, prayerful
atmosphere, the JW will reach that conclusion himself, whether or not he admits
it to you then.
Literature to Give the JW to
Read
As pointed out above, anti-Witness literature is best
kept hidden from sight and unmentioned during discussions with JWs. Eventually,
however, if those discussions prove successful, the Witness will want to start
reading some outside material to further explore the organization’s errors on
his own. What should you recommend or give him to read? It should be something
written especially for Witnesses, preferably by a former member who understands
how they think. Most anti-Witness literature is written by Christians for
Christians, not for JWs themselves to read. Such books employ certain basic assumptions
and vocabulary peculiar to churched people that a Jehovah’s Witness reader
would find either confusing or offensive or both.
Of the few books written for JWs by ex-JWs, the one that
has shown itself most effective in helping them decide to leave the sect is Crisis
of Conscience by Raymond V. Franz. This is the personal story of a man who
spent most of his life in full-time Watchtower service, including nine years as
a member of the elite Governing Body in Brooklyn, the
group’s supreme council. Nephew of President Frederick W. Franz, Raymond
personally wrote Watchtower literature and shared in deciding what would be
taught as the revealed “truth”—until his conscience finally got the best of him
and he found himself in conflict with his peers, resulting in his expulsion.
Although “boring” to many non-Witness readers, Crisis of Conscience is
so fascinating to JWs that many will read it in spite of the knowledge that
they could be put on trial and punished if caught with the book in their
possession. And those who do read it usually leave the organization as a
result. If not available through a local Christian book store, Franz’s book can
be found on the internet.
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